Be Grateful

There is always something to be grateful for. It is up to you to hold onto it and make it your focus.

Gratitude is the healthiest of all human emotions.

The more you express gratitude for what you have, the more likely you will have even more to express gratitude for.

-Zig Ziglar

This is the # 1 thing you can do to get your mind from drifting into depression. Depression is a big net that captures everything that is good around you and makes you blind to it or numb to it. So it’s our job, to cut big holes into that net, and not let it capture what we know is good.

Every morning, before I do anything, I think of one thing I’m so grateful for.

My wife is out of town and my son is sick, so I let him sleep in our bed halfway through the night last night. Even though it is harder to sleep, I love him by my side, knowing I am close, if he needs anything. So this morning, I woke up, looked at my precious son and realized how grateful I am to have such a wonderful son in my life. I’m grateful for his ability to fight this sickness and how he can still be so happy even with that runny nose and fever.

Exercise #1

-Buy a journal and a pen

-Whenever your feeling depressed, anxious, sad, overwhelmed, take a minute and write down what your grateful for. Do this throughout the day and then at night go over that list. Do this everyday and you’ll start training your inner thoughts to be grateful and to look for the good.

Depending on how long you have been depressed this could take time but don’t give up on it. Your mind is programmed to look for things throughout the day that we concentrate on, good or the bad, so might as well be concentrating on the good. The biggest lie of people with depression, is that they will always be depressed. We have to change our brains inner thoughts to look for the good and that cloud will start to vanish and that sun will start shining through again, I promise.

Be grateful throughout the day, everyday!

What are you grateful for?

 

Hey what’s up! I’m Matt

Me and my son Wesley
  • Why am I blogging publicly, rather than keeping a personal journal?

My personal mission and goal is to help people to live their best life. I was depressed for over 20 years and constantly thought about suicide and I don’t want that for anybody. If I can help one person by teaching them how I overcame depression then I have done something bigger than I could of imagined.

  • What topics do you think you’ll write about?

I will write about techniques that have helped me overcome depression. Teach you how to stay fit physically which will make your mind stronger and release those natural endorphins. Lastly, I want to teach you how to eat properly to help your body to operate at its best.

  • Who would you love to connect with via your blog?

I want to connect to anybody struggling with depression who is f*ing tired of it and wants to get rid of it and is open to try new things to achieve a new way of living.

My name is Matt.

I Love my family and especially our late night rave parties.

I love fly fishing and the places it has taken me. Africa, New Zealand, Seychelles, All over America, Mexico, Bahamas, Canada, Belize, and hopefully many more.

I love lifting and staying fit. I would much rather go to the gym for natural endorphins then any other type of drug.

I love when I listen to God and do things I’m scared of. It always turns out okay and its something that always makes me smile looking back on.